The language many people use for co-parenting after divorce makes the children involved seem like the possessions of the parents. People often become so focused on the rights of the parents that they completely ignore the impact a custody battle can have on the...
It is common to experience a wide range of emotions when going through the process of ending a marriage. Guilt is one of the most pervasive emotions that parents deal with when they divorce, but they must be careful not to let guilt, or their response to it, determine...
Perhaps your children look forward to seeing their cousins at family events, or they love staying with Grandma and Grandpa during the summer. Regardless, your extended family can play a significant role in your child’s life. However, these roles and family members...
The prospect of dividing parental responsibilities and custody of the children is often a great source of worry for many parents. After all, they want to do what is best for their children, but dividing time with the children can be emotionally stressful for everyone...
From a young age, individuals are told that they should not gossip about others behind their backs. However, it is human to do so, and gossiping is something everyone does in their lifetime. Even so, gossiping about or badmouthing the other parent of one’s child can...
For many people, their career is an important aspect of their life. Perhaps they have their dream job running their own business. Or they recently got the promotion they wanted. Individuals often devote a considerable amount of time and energy to their work – whether...
Children thrive on stability. Life is constantly changing, and even children must be able to adjust. However, providing stability helps children feel secure. If a child’s parents were never married, then transitioning between each parent’s household is already a part...
Summer in Illinois may still feel far away, but in just a few short months, school will be out and the kids will be back at home. And for divorced parents, now is the time to start planning for the summer and how it will affect their child custody arrangement. So,...
It is a myth that having a child with special needs leads to divorce. While it can be stressful for both parents and the marriage, that stress rarely contributes to or leads to a divorce. Even so, parents of children with special needs can still face a risk for...
A divorce, especially a high-asset divorce, can create significant conflict between you and your ex-spouse. And that is all on top of the complex emotions of anger, grief and relief that you might be feeling when you end your marriage. Trying to work through the past...
